Loving in the abstract / When it all makes sense.

A genuine and pure kind of love. Its so rare and so hard to find. And we are fools in love when we do find it. And I think it comes when you start being serious about what you want in this life.

Love is a service game. Im convinced about that. Its a reciprocation thing.

You have to be caring and nurturing to each other, and you have to receive and give back the caring. All across all of the things.

Dont just receive the love. You have to give it back in many ways and consistently with the same consistency. If you dont give back then you break the serve and someone then has to lose.

Its worked at, but its heart work, and not hard work.

And you cultivate it and water the soil and remove the weeds, every day, and you mow the lawn and you keep it green from winter into the summer and each of the other seasons that we dont care much for.

You have to be his/her aphrodisiac and he/she will give you what he/she has in his/her world and you guys can share all of that and more.

Its like a farm. You get from it what you put in. In the the farm of love, you plant and you harvest together, and if you do that, you both grow and you will all live happily ever after in fields of plenty. I hope.

Chances are, if you are cosmic to be with each other in that type of way, then in all likelihood, you will journey through time in this life with a lot of joy.

I have seen this with some of my friends that have kept marriages and relationships that need carbon dating procedures for working out how long they been together.

Y’all must then age graciously and become fossils. And you become archaeological records for use in the referencing for romantic dissertations. Lol, I kid.

Stay in love fam.