Guns and Roses.

Letting go of a relationship takes time. If you cant admit to a failure, it takes even longer. And your heart bleeds, every day as you fight it out. Its what happened in Malcolm and Marie.

The truth is, whenever you find yourself in a situation that you cant leave in under 30 seconds flat, you are then in a trap. And the heart hooks and the love spikes get you all confused.

And you can try to truth and reconciliation your way back home into each other’s good graces. But if you are sitting on the same side of the tree of life then you have eternal conflict and you cant have a counter-balancing in the variation of heightened emotions. Let me explain.

In the tree of life, a man and a woman must arrive into a relationship from different branches. A cross-pollination of sorts. If you have a square root which common denominates you both, then it means you share some lineage and chances are that your energies arise from the same source.

And you both sit on the same ends of the branch of the tree. And so examining your family trees is very important from the start. If you share an immediate ancestor, then you have a problem, walk away.

It sounds complicated but its simple. When a tree branches out, if you cut a branch from the trunk. All of the other branches that arise further up/down the length of that branch are cut off and wont propagate any further.

And so you get relationship and marriage statuses that are defined as “its complicated". And the people that are at the ends are stuck in an eternal conflict and it becomes endless, and sometimes violent and aggressive and arrogant and destructive. You dont wanna be there young blood.

So the process of letting go, means just that. A complete split from that tree and finding new ground and new water to be able to mend and to get a chance at a new life. Starting from scratch, from zero, and counting up again.

If you are in a toxic relationship, cut yourself off sooner rather than later. Dont wait too long because you may end up in a hotter than hell mess of a situation with a lot of trouble and turmoil having piled up and you wont get rest and respite and sleep.

Move on. Let go and give yourself a chance at a new start. Believe, Pray, and pray again. And dont blame yourself. You made a mistake and you must take the loss and learn a lesson.

God is also a God of second, third, and sometimes fourth chances. And He is always waiting, for you to get your chance at happiness fam.

Thats the message.